Mental Feng Shui
     for Better Relationships


by Grace Ho

Know what you can change, and what you cannot change

Many people tend to get stuck in an interpersonal issue, such as a power struggle, because they try to change or control other person. 

And you must realize that there are two things on earth: What you can change and what you cannot change.

I just cannot emphasize enough the importance of knowing what you can change and what you cannot change. Focus your time and energy to something you can change.

The only way to change people is when such a desire to change must come from WITHIN. 

So, why are we here?

We are here to learn how to position ourselves in negative relationship.

In other words, our life’s lesson is to learn how we can respond wisely and constructively.

My motto is as follows:

You cannot change other people, but you can change yourself and your future.

What I am saying is that you can change yourself by changing your response to other people.

You can always change yourself by using different words, ideas, and thoughts. 

This change can happen INSTANTLY! 

Then, when you change your words, ideas, and thoughts, you are changing your action and behavior.

Ultimately, you are changing the outcome and your future.

Isn’t it nice that you CAN change your future by changing your words, ideas, and thoughts toward other people right now and right here?

Let’s use Mental Feng Shui™ to shift your energy and mind. Your body is a vehicle that expresses our mind. So, realizing what you can change and what you cannot change, you can have a clear mind to focus on your future.

I like a word, “Inner Intelligence.” I believe every one of us have “Inner Intelligence” that we were born with. You can also call it insight, spiritual awakening, calling, or wisdom. It tells YOU what is right and what is wrong. But it is up to you take a right action. Usually, it requires passion, motivation, and dream. 

So, don’t waste your time or energy to try to change someone. All you need to do is to accept that person and be patient and generous for his/her “Inner Intelligence” starts working.

And in the meantime, use YOUR “Inner Intelligence” to change yourself right now for your future.

Grace Ho is an international best-selling author and the creator of Mental Feng Shui™.  Her book “One Minute Feng Shui for Prosperity” becamse #2 in Kindle in Global Marketing. 

Dynamic Living Magazine Issue Vol. 4  Jul/Aug 2011 The End